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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the spouse of a partner who had a fairly long term EA. It's been four years, and it's still painful. It took the feeling of having a safe haven in a relationship, the sense of being a team and destroyed it like an atomic detonation. What I would have liked from my spouse? True remorse Complete honesty Making it up to me Restoring feeing valued And more than that - all of that upfront before spouse got to complain one whit that I was a lousy spouse or how much they're grieving for their friend. Because while spouse was off "feeing validated" I was not feeling so validated either, but I didn't find a special friend with whom to share intimate things. Or you wanted to hear from repentant spouses who shared your sense of loss once the EA ended? Suck it up buttercup.[/quote]
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