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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you explicitly and clearly told them the condition of your family joining was not telling your mom, then why aren't you clear with cousins that the consequence of giving your mom the information that you are not going and you aren't paying beyond the initial deposit.  They can pay your portion or they can also forgo their deposits and find another place to go on the holiday.  Bam.  You have your sanity.  The family deals with the natural consequences and you still have money for your needed vacation.[/quote]

You can't make the other cousins pay for one cousin's mistake, but I would definitely try to get the cousin at fault to pay for her mistake.  She probably won't.[/quote]

Not OP, but given how she's described the cousin, I doubt it's worth the trouble.[/quote]

Agree.  There is 0 chance this cousin is going to pay for OPs share now that OP can't go.  Since the cousin thinks OP is a liar and OPs mom isn't a problem, the cousin will just say OP is overreacting and if OP won't go on the vacation that's OPs choice/problem.  [/quote]
No she should pull out and not pay. Use the money to go somewhere else. Who cares what the cousin think. It's not like she will be going on vacation with them again. Plus it shows how serious she is about her mother. They will not do it again.[/quote]

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