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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Virgins who posted, were your spouses Virgins too?[/quote]

Yes, DH and I both were virgins and were college sweethearts. I was clear from the very beginning that I will only have sex with my husband. So, he had a choice to dump me if he wanted. I thought that if the person really thought I was worth the wait, then he will wait.

We dated for a number of years, and sometimes came very close to having sex, but often it was my DH who had the iron control.  I think he realized that my virginity meant something very special to me.

Anyways,  when we married it was like we could not get enough sex. And that hunger has not really abated even after 20+ years.  I also think that for the first few years of our marriage, the newness of sex and the excitement and pleasure of  sexual exploration, made us very amenable to marital adjustment and give and take.  It was like we were crushing on each other and really addicted to sex.  We went out of our way to take care of each other's likes and dislikes.

I know people will slam me for this, but losing my virginity on my wedding night,  elevated sex to making love with a person who respected me enough to wait for me.  As I am writing this, I wonder what it meant to my DH? I never asked him that question.[/quote]

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