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[quote=Anonymous]I was a virgin until I had sex with my boyfriend at age 22.  I ended up marrying him, and we have been together 10+ years.  I knew that our relationship was serious but did not know that we would definitely get married when we had sex.  He was not a virgin.

Do I regret not having had sex earlier?  Yes, kind of.  I built it up as a really big thing in my head and sort of wish I had experienced more before getting married.  But I'm also really happy with my marriage and husband, and it really doesn't matter at all now.  I also had no specific desire to wait until marriage -- I just knew that I wanted to be in a very serious relationship and not have sex willy-nilly.  I had been in one serious relationship previously but my boyfriend in that relationship wanted to wait until marriage.  If he hadn't, I probably would have had sex with him.

I'm happy to say that I have only had one sexual partner, though, and it makes me certain that I don't have any diseases or other issues as a result of things I did with people I no longer know.  Kudos to you for waiting if it's something you believe in!  If you've waited this long and want to marry your boyfriend, then wait until marriage if it works for you.  Just make sure you and your boyfriend aren't rushing into marriage just because you want to have sex.  My earlier boyfriend was super intent on marriage, even though we were younger than I wanted to marry (in college), and I'm fairly sure it was because he wanted to have sex.[/quote]

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