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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read all the other replies but I don't agree with the post about you just not liking this kid. Sounds like he has real issues and no one is doing anything about it.

Before you even attempt to marry this guy, make sure he comes to grips with all this and deals with it. Just how do you suppose he'll be with your future child? Scary isn't it. [/quote]

That's not what it sounds like at all. It sounds like OP has the mistaken belief you can just "do" something about special needs. She has no idea what goes on at his moms house or how much work might be put into working with him that makes minimal difference or falls by the wayside when he's at dad's. Instead she just wants to blame mom, because that's cool. Op has no business inserting herself into this issue anymore than she has. If she can't handle the child as he is, the good news for her is she doesn't have to. [/quote]

I don't get all of you who are attacking OP. If this kid turns suicidal or into a school shooter some day you'll be the first ones telling that the dad and stepmother should have been doing something about his issues. She sees a problem and wants to explore the options, but can't do that if Dad is in denial. To me, it sounds like this kid is asking for help and she's the only one listening. Maybe there's nothing that can completely fix it all, but if you don't try to help, how will you know?[/quote]

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