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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, your attitude is just as bad as your husband secretly applying for jobs outside DC.

This is a conversation. You and he need to talk about it like adults. He can look at jobs outside DC. He should apply for everything that he's interested in, and then you can evaluate the offers on the merits. You can do actual research into the towns where these jobs are located and work with actual information.

I have been where you are, and what we did was make a list of all the cities we would both be willing to move to. We focused on the ones that matched up and evaluated our career prospects in each. There were cities on my husband's list that there was NO WAY IN HELL I would ever agree to move to for various reasons. There were also cities on my list that he felt that way about. We crossed those off the list completely.

Right now, you are being incredibly intransigent, which is not a great way to get your husband to be forthright with you about his job search. This is not the only children's hospital in the country. My mother worked at the children's hospital in Milwaukee. A good friend works at the children's hospital in Austin. There are other options, and I think that for the sake of your marriage and [b]the husband that you love,[/b] you should have a conversation, rather than throw around ultimatums.[/quote]

Doesn't sound like she loves him to me.....[/quote]

Wow I just found this forum today. If DCUM&D = real life then I should get out of here FAST!

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