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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No she isn't my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting her to hang on to my words of wanting to be exclusive but I was expecting her to bring up the elephant in the room since I was the drunk idiot who spilled all his feelings the night before lol. Maybe a "so what was that last night?". I don't know just something, but nope not a peep from her.[/quote]

PP here.  The subject line is "did I screw up" but you seem to be more concerned that she hasn't followed up on your drunk ramblings.  If you did something crazy that was a clear red flag while drunk, then I would hope she would mention it.  If she was fairly confident of your feelings and felt comfortable enough to tease you about it, I could see her mentioning it.  I'm afraid you are awkward land of neither being sure of the other person's feelings and you are hoping she will blink first and bring up the other night.  I still stand by the fact she could be interested and not going to blink first.

From her standpoint here are the options
-If she doesn't want feel the same way, it would be cruel to say "so what was that last night" just to say she has no interest in dating exclusively
-If she does feel the same way, you would know she does if she brings it up (see above point) so then at that point you could feign ignorance/say you were drunk, or you could say yes, you really meant it but it wasn't how you wanted to say it etc.  But she doesn't know which way it will go so she is the one putting it out there by bringing it up.    Also, if a person can only tell me while drunk that he is interested, I honestly don't think that counts if you can't bring it up sober.[/quote]

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