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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm confused, are you exclusive and this is your girlfriend?  Because if you have been dating but not explicitly exclusive if I were her I wouldn't nessarily bring up the drunk talking. I'm not going to try to desperately hang on to drunk words that you [b]may[/b] want to date exclusively.  If you can't have the conversation sober and without the threat of some other guy possibly texting me, what is there to discuss?  She may have sort of laughed it off because if bringing it up drunk and joking/half joking was a way for you to not put your feelings on the line but at the same time try to get her to do so, I wouldN't want to play that game and tried to deflect.

As for whether you are really her number 1 or not, here is the deal.  She could be texted some other guy and you could still be her number 1 but she has no commitment to you so she may not be closing the door on at least talking to other guys.  If you man up and have the exclusive conversation while sober, if she isn't ready to commit, she will let you know.   It may hurt, but better you know now if she isn't that into you.  If she brings up the drunken rankings at that point, just own it that you were thinking exclusivity for awhile and just wished yiu had mentioned it sober.[/quote]

No she isn't my girlfriend. I wasn't expecting her to hang on to my words of wanting to be exclusive but I was expecting her to bring up the elephant in the room since I was the drunk idiot who spilled all his feelings the night before lol. Maybe a "so what was that last night?". I don't know just something, but nope not a peep from her.[/quote]

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