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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did she tell you why she cheated? What was wrong with your marriage? Can you focus on that? Focus on fixing that together. [/quote]

She felt "detached" emotionally. It can't be physical.  I'm in great shape.  I tend to focus on work a lot and kid as well.  Her excuse is neglect of her feelings.  She said I was always shooting down her ideas as stupid or not feasible. I don't believe I was.  I'm very analytical.  I try to see all the risks and rewards before jumping into something.

She's also not as into fitness as I am.  I work out consistently and hard.  She makes and effort because she sees me doing it and feels she has to keep up.  I have a lot of energy and extroverted, her not so much.

Not sure what this guy offers I don't.  I love my wife, but can't trust anything she says right now.  Funny thing is the guy she cheated with is kind of like me.  Same type of person from what I've seen.  I'm shocked really.

I'll be honest I suspected something was up but didn't want to jump to conclusions, but you can't ignore your gut instinct I guess.  If nothing else I've learned to trust that more. [/quote]

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