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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've never had an affair or been cheated on and have been married for 10+ years. However, I'm not sure why it matters what the marital state of one's hookup partner is. The onus of responsibility rests firmly on the shoulders of the married person not to cheat.

To me, this sounds a lot like trying to shift blame away from the married cheater...[/quote]

Like standing by and watching a cop beat a black kid, i mean it's the cops fault right.[/quote]

? I don't get this analogy. [/quote]

It's like watching a mom tell her daughter she is a fat slob and not say anything.
It's like watching a customer yell at a waitress and not doing anything.
It's like watching a person yell at the man with tourette's because he won't shut up.
It's like watching a teacher tell a kid he is stupid and worthless and not say anything.
It's like .....

Stop just saying "it's not my fault"... you are an agent in a terrible agreement that hurts other people and families. Own it, I don't care if you F married men but just own that it hurts people and it is most likely because you are a mess and need help. I have sympathy for OP... I have many friends like her ... all of them had terrible childhoods. It sucks! But acting like "I am not doing anything wrong" is ignorant.

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