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[quote=Anonymous]It may be that you have some jealousy issues regarding their $$ which makes you over react a bit. The rational part of you knows that even if they have money it doesn't mean they don't have other problems you don't have, so this money thing may be nagging at something else in you that you haven't really dealt with. Ask yourself why are you really resenting their wealth-does it trigger some feelings of insecurity from your childhood? Do you resent that dh isn't earning more? Do you feel like your kids are getting less opportunity than theirs? Do you feel trapped by your mortgage and bills? Whatever it is, You need to slay that inner demon, it's got nothing to do with them. Hopefully you don't feel that they should be sharing their money with you simply because they have it. In the future regarding care sharing I might say: 'since we hosted all the kids at our place last time maybe you guys can do it next sat so dh and I can have a day out? '[/quote]
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