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[quote=Anonymous]Watch and wait.  Check cell phone bill call records.  Check computer history regularly and take screen shots.  Check expenditures on all credit and debit cards, bank accounts, etc.  Pay attention to the odometer on the car.  Make copies of all important financial records - mortgage, retirement taxes, etc.  I agree with other's suggestions that you catfiah him a bit.  But, be careful that you don't leave a trail that he can connect back to you.

You can figure out a lot by googling phone numbers and credit card entries.

Consult an attorney.  It is likely that documented evidence of cheating will make no difference in a divorce, legally-speaking (except in VA), but having enough info to make appropriate decisions and stop his gaslighting is priceless.

When you choose to confront him, do not tell him everything you know and do not tell him how you know.  How he reacts to confrontation - whether he is honest and remorseful instead pf lying and denying - will tell you all you need to know about your future.[/quote]

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