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[quote=Anonymous]OP, first thing you need to understand is that the anonymous folks of DCUM are going to root for your divorce.  They project evil on your husband, as all they know is he is a potential cheater.  Meanwhile, most would work it out with their spouse for this.

Second, there is a chance he was just flirting.  But it is a dangerous first step.

The big question you two need figure out - is this an otherwise good man, good father, good husband who is making a very human mistake? Someone who in the midst of the weeds of parenting young children where the sex and romance and fun are on hold is giving in to natural temptation?  Take inventory on your whole marriage - how he treats you, your children, has he been there for you.  You can decide if there is a good foundation worth trying to get through this situation.

My hunch is that he wants to feel admired.  That is why older men hit the sugar daddy site.  If he just wanted anonymous sex, there are hookers and other cheater websites.

Whether you want to try and trap him depends on what you want, ultimately.  If you want to divorce, sure, then trap him.  If you want something to evolve from this, then just confront him and have the tough conversation.

Good luck to you.  Only you can decide what works for you.[/quote]

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