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Reply to "googling exes: what's okay, what's problematic"
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[quote=Anonymous][i]Occasional [/i]Googling is one thing. Curiosity is a real thing. But weekly Googling the same person??? I think that wold clearly be an indication that things might be wrong. I started Googling an Ex a few years ago, and we started chatting and communicating via facebook. Either he realized this was a problem or his wife did, but it pretty much ended and I haven't heard from him again. Until I read your post I didn't put two and two together that I was doing this at the Googling and reaching out to him at beginning of the end of my marriage. It was me looking elsewhere for some love and validation and attraction that I was not feeling at home. Instead of looking at myself and my husband and my marriage to figure out what was wrong, I was groping around for external validation, love, attention, whatever. Because there [u]were [/u]things wrong (I can see it very clearly now) and I was avoiding the real issues. [/quote]
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