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[quote=Anonymous][quote][b]If I were him I would dump you for your judgement. [/b]You've only been on two dates and you expect this guy to tell you his whole life story? You're just seeing if there is attraction and common interests at this point. That's nothing something you divulge until you're more serious about dating that person.

I feel like you're being too judgemental. Foster kids can grow up with issues, but look at all the " normal" home children that grow up to be violent, on drugs, strippers, rapists, etc. Everyone has a past. Don't judge him for things he had no control over. It's like one guy who said he wouldn't date a woman with divorced parents. How can you penalize that person for a situation they had no power over.

Either give this guy chance and see how things go, or stop seeing him. I think you should do him a favor and let him find a woman who isn't so judgemental. He deserves better.[/quote]

Yep.  He deserves better than you.

i grew up in a 2 parent household that was totally fucked up.  Couldn't be worse than foster care - at least it wouldn't have been my bio-parent doing that shit to me.  Yet, I'm the model of resiliency.  Gota BA, went to Peace Corps, bot an MBA, happily married 20 years and 3 well adjusted kids.  That guy doesn't need or deserve your judgment. Go back to the shallow end where you belong.[/quote]

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