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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, you are seriously idealizing the dude who ghosted you. Really good guys who value and respect you don't disappear without a word for 3 weeks, just because they get scared. Gimme a break. You wouldn't have lived happily ever after with him, either.[/quote]

+1.  Probably ex-DH and ghoster were both lousy, and pp seems to have gotten the wrong takeaway from the whole terrible experience.

I've come to the conclusion that it is absolutely useless to give commentary on other people's relationships, ever.  One of my cousins married a catastrophe that everyone could see a mile away.  He was unemployed, vulgar, 10 years older than her, overweight with health issues (she is very fit and attractive and a computer programmer), pushed her into rushing into marriage, bought a used engagement ring that she reset, refused to have a real wedding reception out of cheapness, and on, and on.  EVERYONE in her family objected to him openly, said she was too good for him, etc.  And she STILL married him.  And he is even worse than anyone thought he would be, and she is determined to stay with him, or in denial, or something.

So just, yeah, MYOB.  Let her live her own life.[/quote]

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