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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. 38.[/quote] 38 was when I had my first. I hardly think that's a "bonus" age. oy[/quote] OP here, and it's not my age so much that makes this feel like a "bonus," it's that my current youngest is 9 - will be 10 at the birth and I will be 39. I had my first two kids pretty young (25 and 29), so it's a big change in our family. And my DH is 45. Didn't mean any offense by the term. [/quote] I had my two kids not much younger than you are now. If I found out 9 years after the last one that I was pregnant again that would have been very tough news and not an easy thing to adjust to, although I know that I would have adjusted and I would have loved that baby. But I also would have been 45+ and a pregnancy at that age would have been hard. You are only 39. So I think it depends on how you and your husband feel about it. If you are both ready and prepared to love and care for a newborn - go for it.[/quote]
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