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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need a plan.

My H had an affair, and we are divorcing, but we are amicable... but with that comes rules. OW is done... no contact.

We have mutual friends and my H had to go to a work event and she could possibly be there. So we had a plan. If she shows up he leaves, no hi, no glance, just leave. When her friends started to show up, he left.

So you can't control him but your W has to tell you and you have to remain calm or she will stop telling you things.

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So you're divorcing him, but he's still not allow to talk to her? Was she over the top insane or something?[/quote]

Aren't they all, yes, she lacked morals and I don't want that type of person in my child's life.

OW are never the women you marry, they are the dorm room whore you screw when you get home from a bar and didn't find a real hook up.

If he wants ago be a part of my life ... Meaning I include him in the kids stuff when they are with me, yes, there are rules around that arrangement.

If you want to be a loser and associate with losers, you can see your kids every other weekend and Wednesday's.[/quote]

I think you should get some help to work through your anger. You really don't want to model this type of vindictive behavior for your children, do you?[/quote]

Standing up for yourself is not vindictive behavior. Sorry! If he loved her so much they would be together. If she was worth a penny, he would not have dumped her like a $5 whore.

I do not let my children go to houses where parents serve alcohol and I don't condone pathetic toxic behavior that comes with affairs and I don't want my children around it.

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You're using your children as pawns.[/quote]

No I am not, he get Wednesday and every other weekend. If he want to stop by his off weekends to say high, swim in the pool, just hang out. He needs to treat me with repect.

He cheated, he created the divorce, he is the reason their is custody agreements. If he wants amicable he needs to act a certain way to me and around me. Sorry.[/quote]

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