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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need a plan.

My H had an affair, and we are divorcing, but we are amicable... but with that comes rules. OW is done... no contact.

We have mutual friends and my H had to go to a work event and she could possibly be there. So we had a plan. If she shows up he leaves, no hi, no glance, just leave. When her friends started to show up, he left.

So you can't control him but your W has to tell you and you have to remain calm or she will stop telling you things.

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So you're divorcing him, but he's still not allow to talk to her? Was she over the top insane or something?[/quote]

Aren't they all, yes, she lacked morals and I don't want that type of person in my child's life.

OW are never the women you marry, they are the dorm room whore you screw when you get home from a bar and didn't find a real hook up.

If he wants ago be a part of my life ... Meaning I include him in the kids stuff when they are with me, yes, there are rules around that arrangement.

If you want to be a loser and associate with losers, you can see your kids every other weekend and Wednesday's.[/quote]

I think you should get some help to work through your anger. You really don't want to model this type of vindictive behavior for your children, do you?[/quote]

Standing up for yourself is not vindictive behavior. Sorry! If he loved her so much they would be together. If she was worth a penny, he would not have dumped her like a $5 whore.

I do not let my children go to houses where parents serve alcohol and I don't condone pathetic toxic behavior that comes with affairs and I don't want my children around it.

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You're using your children as pawns.[/quote]

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