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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Husband just admitted to having online "flirtations" with about six women over the past year - flirty emails, naked photos - which he attributes to our unhappy marriage. I found one such exchange in his email (yes, I snooped) and this led him to fess up. There are general "communication" issues between us, usually manifesting as his being disrespectful toward me.

I'm much more upset at this then I ever predicted I would be. I want to leave, but I'm nine weeks pregnant, we have a two year old, and I'm a SAHM (no financial independence or family to rely upon). Please, what should I do? [/quote]

Have you ever worked, do you have a degree? If so you need to figure out what you need to do to get yourself financially independent before you do anything. 9 weeks pregnant so probably not showing, go get a job now with some benefits if you can. Do all this then work on fixing marriage. If marriage can't be fixed and you aren't financially independent, your screwed.[/quote]

Not showing. Have an undergrad degree, but haven't worked in a few years as we live in Europe and I'm not authorized to work here/don't speak fluent French. Suppose I could find telework jobs, but am a SAHM. I have to do something, I know. [/quote]

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