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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I can guarantee your spouse has already picked up in the fact that you dread talking with her which makes her feel more depressed/angry. I think you need to look at how your behavior is contributing to the problem. [/quote] My own behavior? No. This is all her. The few times I tried to engage it directly, she attacked. It's what she does -- she attacks. Me, the children. She literally snarl at the children if she's angry with them. If anyone dares challenge her or call her out on her persistent negativity, it's all our fault for being too sensitive and we should stop internalizing things all the time. Never mind that we all walk on eggshells around her. My behavior was to disengage. It's a matter of self-preservation and I will not be made to feel guilty for it.[/quote] how many years have you been "disengaged" from your wife and family?[/quote]
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