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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]The men (usually men) who are so quick to call their wives "borderline," or say the problem is just their crazy wife, always fail to look at their own contributions to the dynamic. [/b]

OP, if you seriously want to improve your life and your marriage, you both need to get into therapy and do the hard work of looking at yourselves. That's all there is to it. I'm sorry, but there is no other way to improve the situation and typing out your anger on an anonymous internet forum will change nothing.

If your spouse won't go into therapy, go yourself.

If you don't want to do that, ask yourself what you are getting out of the status quo and why you are so determined to refuse to do the one thing that could really change your life. [/quote]

This. "Borderline" is considered a pretty shady diagnosis even in the psych community. More often than not, and almost always when it's used in casual conversations/online forums, it's just blameshifting.

She's not perfect, but OP is no peach either. OP can change one of these things...[/quote]

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