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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband just took a new job with a 50% pay cut to what is basically a starting salary.  He did not discuss it with me.  I make 3x what he does and will now have to take on a second job to make ends meet.

When we married, he was at an Ivy League grad school and was working on his PhD.  But he never applied all of that potential.  Now he's hoping to coast through the next 15 years to retirement.

[b]We are seeking different goals.  He wants low key, living 2 hours from DC.  I want to move in closer, cut down my commute, enjoy the cultural things the city has to offer.  But first we need to pay off the $100k of student loans.  I'm deeply disappointed it worked out this way.  [/b]

I'm probably the person you hear bitching about her spouse.  Although I feel my grievances are justified, reading this, I feel embarrassed.  Gonna put my head down, work more, and muster more bootstraps and all that mumbojumbo.[/quote]

Did you discuss any of this before you got married?  Why do you have to take on a second job (and not him)?[/quote]

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