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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't agree with your expectations in this scenario. There's absolutely nothing wrong with having a style preference and I think it's good for couples to talk about what kind of style ring the woman would want. I have discussed it with my BF! However if your BF has told you he can't afford what you want, I think you should give in. I know I would. I love my BF dearly and for me, the carat and specific cut isn't as important as the commitment it symbolizes. A smaller ring can be just as beautiful. It makes you sound very materialistic and selfish, to be honest. [/quote]

OP here. I am not materialistic. I already eloped with him on short notice because he proposed and said he could not afford to get me a ring or have a nice wedding. He promised in a year or so, he'd give me a nice ring as a symbol of his love and we'd have a subsequent "wedding party" for our family and friends. I just thought that after waiting 2 years, he'd be able to get me the ring of my dreams.[/quote]

He IS offering you a nice ring. Despite what DCUM would lead you to believe, not everyone has huge rings.

Do you not have any money? All your money is (or should be) joint now. Why don't you contribute? Or why didn't you wait? What was the rush for immigration, unless you were here illegally (or about to be?)[/quote]

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