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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are not in charge of him and how he feels/conducts himself. It has nothing to do with you. So you don't need to respond. And you certainly don't need to follow him on social media.

However, you ARE in charge of what you will allow to be said/what you will hear in your presence. If he speaks this way in front of you, you may leave, or you may ask him to leave your home. You are entitled to take your children with you. And DH should not prevent this; there is no excuse for allowing yourself or your children to be subject to such hateful words.

If you leave/take your kids with you often enough, he'll either change his behavior, or he'll disengage from you. His choice.[/quote]

Agree with this. My father was the same. Called my Arab Muslim son a towelhead. (Son was a infant at the time). I told him off (politely) and left.

Sucks, but I always knew my father was extremely insecure. [/quote]

Wait, so your dad isn't Arab or Muslim, and evidently you aren't either (at least not by birth), but you got impregnated by a father who was Arab/Muslim, therefore, your son is Arab/Muslim as opposed to whatever you the mom's ethnicity and religion are?

How could that be?  How come you don't identify your son as whatever your religion and nationality of origin might be?   Also how can an infant be Muslim?  He doesn't even know what he is yet.

Right?[/quote]

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