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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am at my wit’s end with my husband of almost 10 years. I honestly don’t know what I can say or do but we have to make a change.

The last few weeks have been especially challenging. We just got into a major fight on the way to work. I started a new position last month and we are now driving into the city together. I cannot stand the way he acts sometimes – just nasty comments about people who cross the intersection late, cars that don’t pull far enough up, he is just generally an angry driver. It puts me on edge and I react badly.

It’s not just in the car that we fight – he is just SO negative. We have always been sarcastic but it seems like he is really at a whole new level. When I try to talk to him about it he deflects and accuses me of the same thing. He definitely gives off the victim, poor me, my wife is so hard on me vibe.

And don’t even get me started on the latest convo in our house – despite being a republican all my life, I think trump is batshit crazy but my husband is a supporter. We mistakenly talked about the Orlando shooting in relation to the presidential run and that tuned ugly. I truly can’t understand why he thinks semi-automatic weapons are acceptable for people to buy!!! And he attempted to agree with Trump that Obama “probably had intelligence on it but did nothing” WHAT THE F***???????????

Here is the thing though – I don’t want a divorce – he is a good man and decent father with good intentions and strong ethics – he would never cheat, steal, lie, etc. But I just cannot stand to be around him right now. Any attempt at having a conversation turns into a full on fight. I am SO sick of it.

I really need practical advice on what to do – please help me. 
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He disagrees with you so he must be in the wrong.  It's not possible to state a difference of opinion with you and have it simply be two different viewpoints.  The battle must be joined.

You are so very typical of so many disturbed unhappy women, who seek to blame everyone for their unhappiness but themselves.[/quote]

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