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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The bottom line is that most women have had some negative  experiences with online dating. There are guys out there that say that they want relationships, etc. but they are really looking for just quick and easy hook-ups.

When I meet a stranger from an online site, I am usually a bit more vocal about making it clear that I am not going to sleep with them right away.  Nothing is really all that different from regular dating (I still find a make out session on date 3 or 4 to be the norm, sex after 5-6 dates if the vibe is right).

Women are just more open about telling you that they aren't going to hop in bed with you if they meet you online.  It's a way to weed out the ones that won't wait more than 3 dates for sex. If a guy has a hard and fast rule about not waiting more than that, he is probably not a very high quality guy.[/quote]

Look.  There is a phenomenon here.  Desirable women who don't have some kind of psychological issue in their late 20's or early 30's have no problem getting into a relationship with a decent guy.  The peanut gallery is full of head cases who don't know what they want.   These women are serial daters who 1) presumably only date men they are sexually attracted to  2) yet don't seem to understand that the prime reason, if not the exclusive reason, a normal adult male is even bothering dating them, is for sex.   And when the guy makes his intentions clear, these screwed up in the head women actually hold that against him.

Ladies, there is something physically or emotionally wrong with you if you don't understand that guys who date you want to have sex with you, and further that you actually feel justified in being offended by the fact that men who date you want to have sex with you.  That's exactly what's supposed to happen.[/quote]

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