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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my experience, the same guys who expect you to put out on a second date are the same guys who freak out if you're anything less than a virginal angel....with porn star skills in bed.

I had a second date with a guy recently which ended with 45 minutes of making out at his place. When I left without going further, he seemed disappointed. Sure enough, a few days later I get a text saying we didn't have the right "chemistry" and he didn't want to see me again. :roll: sure, sweetie. whatever you say. [/quote]

Assuming you're not a teenager, PP, then "making out" for 45 minutes implies that he tried to go further and you made it clear you weren't interested in doing that.

Adults who spend that much time making out, if they are emotionally healthy, understand that the making out isn't for its own sake--it's foreplay.  Apparently you just like to make out for its own sake, but the guy you dated, being a more mature individual, views that as a waste of his time if it's not going to lead any further, and frustrating.

You seem surprised that the guy politely told you he wasn't interest in participating in another frustrating "tease" session with you.  Are you displeased that he's made himself unavailable for your sexual manipulations?  Awww, poor you.

But guaranteed if you were really into the guy you would have had sex with him on the first date.  That's obvious and he figured it out, stop pretending otherwise.[/quote]

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