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[quote=Anonymous]hire a once every 2 weeks cleaning service- best $200 a month you'll ever spend. you cannot both delegate and then have it done exactly as you'd do it yourself, without treating someone like hired help. do it for the sake of your marriage, he's your partner, not your employee. and frankly, he sounds like a good one in many ways. FWIW i am a DW who is a total slob. my dh can't believe how much mess i make in the kitchen when i cook. when i clean the kitchen i consider doing the dishes sufficient. when he cleans he wipes down all the counters and floor. but do you know what he just laughs at me and rolls his eyes. he takes on things he wants done a certain way, just as i do. when time is precious we outsource it. i agree with PP's suggestion about swapping for lunch duty, too. nobody's perfect. the majority of identifiable salmonella illness cases result from eating in restaurants, so unless you also avoid eating out, i would suggest keeping all risks in perspective. [/quote]
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