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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a divorced dad with 50 50 physical custody and the biggest surprise to me was how expensive it is to maintain two big enough homes. People earned me but I didn't really get it. The other surprise was that on my weeks, dealing with whatever comes up with the kids is hard. Like if they get sick, there is no backup, my ex does not bail me out. So I have to miss work. I wish we could be nicer to each other in this way, but she doesn't care.[/quote] You don't want to miss work when your child is sick? You never missed work when your child was sick when you were married?[/quote] When one of my kids is sick, my wife and I make a case-by-case decision regarding who can more easily work from home that day. I would assume if we were divorced, we would instead default to "the person who has custody that day is the one who needs to leave work."[/quote]
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