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Reply to "Dating men and having them open doors...or not."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am male and I just hold building doors open for everyone. I thought this was just something that adults do. If a passenger door for a car is locked, I'll unlock it. In the days of power locks, I'd honestly feel a bit silly walking around a car to open an unlocked door for a able-bodied adult. Maybe I would do this for my grandmother, who physically (and mentally) struggles with things that we take for granted. As for pulling chairs out -- again, I'd feel silly doing this for an able-bodied grown-up. And you should feel silly for expecting it. On the other hand, I'm egalitarian and agree with most feminist stances on political issues. Do you want to be treated like a helpless doll who constantly requires "special handling" or do you want to be treated as an equal? [/quote] I want you to know the difference (effortlessly, because of a proper upbringing).[/quote]
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