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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm my husband's kids' "other woman" and I try to be very sensitive. That said, would you rather they hate her or she be horrible to them? I always try to think about how I would want my kids to be treated if for whatever reason their dad ended up with someone else. Also, some of the "fun" stuff will wear off: she's probably putting in a lot of effort right now. As time goes on, especially if she gets pregnant, she won't have time to put in so much effort. [/quote] I'd just add to this that, if you think about it, would you really not want your kids to talk to you about it? The fact that they do mean they feel close enough to you to tell you about it and confident that you won't be upset about it. Its an indication your relationship with them is strong. I'd be more concerned if they felt like they needed to hide their relationship with her from you.[/quote]
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