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Reply to "DH's ex wife constantly asks him for money"
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[quote=Anonymous]Of course it is your business and your role to set boundaries. Here's what you do. You sit down with DH and make a budget - child support, other expenses, retirement. And then you look at what discretionary income is left and decide together how much of that you want to go to the kids if and when there is a need. Say its $300 a month. Then, next time you get a request for money that is within that amount, you can say that you're happy to take care of it if she sends you the info to order or make payment. And if it is beyond that amount, you can say that you're happy to pay for the first $300 of the cost, if she sends you the info. Rinse and repeat until she understands this is how it is going to be.[/quote]
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