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Reply to "Other parent called my kid a slur--how should I respond?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm really having a hard time imagining the context for this. oP, I don't care what the slur is, but can you tell us the context around it? (Like did the dad say "sit down and shut up, you xxxxx." Or "I've always wanted Larla to have a xxxx friend." Or what???). That might affect whether this is a immediately cut off all contact situation, or a subtly let the mom know her husband is inappropriate situation. Really, if my husband was being wildly inappropriate around play dates, I would want to know so that: 1) he never monitored another play date; and 2) I could leave him if he's the type to call a little kid a xxxx. I'm also wondering if the dad is from another country, as sometimes people don't realize what they are saying or are using a bad translator. In Russian, for instance, the words for black people do not translate well to English, and I can see a Russian that doesn't speak English well using the n word without understanding the impact. [/quote]
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