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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I noticed some  posters encouraging a wive or husband to stay in a marriage with a cheating spouse. I keep reading comments like " seek counseling" " work it though" and "don't get divorced"

Why would anyone advice a person to stay in a marriage with someone who cheated on them regardless if they are children involved? Some people just donot understand what cheating is and its impact to any relationship? Are the people encouraging this miserable and just want company? 
Is this a self-esteem problem? I have always believed  you lower self-worth staying in a relationship with a cheater. It's accepting mediocrity into your life.It's settling for the lowest. A person who cheats is a coward. Why would you want be with a coward? It's welcoming misery into you life. We have too many single men and women on the planet to have settle for a cheater.  Why lower your standards? 
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I'm the cheater, but I can tell you why my husband stays with me.  He doesn't want the kids 50% of the time on his own; he wants 50% of our money; so long as I'm discreet, he's happy he doesn't have to be my 100% sexual outlet. He isn't up to it/interested enough, which resulted in me cheating. So long  as his friends don't know, he can live with it. And I don't want a divorce.[/quote]

Does he know you're cheating and has told you he's fine with it on the terms you mention?  Or is this what you suppose he feels?[/quote]

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