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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I get it.  You sound so grounded.  I would have a hard time too, even though in some twisted way I would feel happy that my kids were happy.  Your kids are having a similar experience because their connection to her must feel like a betrayal to you.

It sounds like you are just trying to make the best of a situation nobody wants.  I would look into a divorce support group so you can share this kind of stuff with other women who won't keep reminding you to be happy.  New Beginnings has groups, as does JSSA.  Good luck![/quote]

Exactly, I love my kids to pieces and in no way do I want them to feel bad or guilty. I want to grieve and get through missing them and feeling like I'm mourning. It's just hard. SO HARD. I miss them all the time I'm not with them. Divorce sucks. And it hurts not to be with them 100% of the time. That's all. And my ex lies to me so I don't know what's going on and I hate to put the kids in the middle, which I don't do directly, the little one just mostly tells me. His GF shouldn't be spending the night when the kids are there, we've discussed and decided it wasn't appropriate. Just kills me for my kids. [/quote]

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