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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, figure out your boundaries with DH and your expectations of how you will be treated now, before you have a child. It will only get harder![/quote] +1000. Do NOT have kids with this guy until you feel comfortable with the boundaries he sets & boundaries that he allows you to set with the in-laws. This kind of behavior is only the tip of the iceberg of serious disfunction. Kids will only complicate matters between you, your husband, and your jerk in-laws. I've been married for 18years, and my in-laws are still like this. It doesn't get better with time and/or kids. Start talking to your husband about how you'd like to handle this & what would feel appropriate & confortable to you. If you two are on the same page, that is a good start. If you aren't anywhere close to same page, get a good therapist involved. [/quote]
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