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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]husband here. i dont agree with the "screw golf" theory. i agree that it should be cut down to where one is not doing it every weekend and blocking off valuable time. i disagree with completely stopping because you have kids and a family.

your life and interests dont end because of kids. you work around it and find a balance. you dont get a gold star because you decide to invest the next 18 years of your life to your kids only. thats not healthy in my book. find a balance between kids, family, wife, personal interests and make it work.

youll end up miserable asking about how to get an ap or "complaining" about your no sex having spouse in no time simply focusing on the kids.  [/quote]

I don't really understand your post.  I'm ok with my husband golfing 1 day a week but more than that is too much given our situation.  I haven't "built my life around my kids" but when dad is gone all the time and my son has health needs what am I supposed to do? [/quote]

+1 PP is projected a bit, I sense. [/quote]

im not projecting. i have 3 kids.

i am saying your husband needs to find a balance. the end. i understand you are in a different situation because your child has special needs and i wont minimize that.

just saying that there were people saying just stop golfing, or doing activities he likes and that is not the solution.

your husband can definitely skip out on a weekend on golf on mothers day for you, rather than use that day for "make up" time because you went out of town/did activities on your own.

i was more responding to people thinking your husband can save his activities for when he retires. [/quote]

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