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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't see how not having multiple life-long friends is anomalous behavior. People drift away. I'm still friendly with a few of my college mates. However, we live on the opposite sides of the country/world, we have other obligations. Yes, there is time for an occational email or phone call, but that's about it.

I lived in another state for 10 years and befriended someone. Now we moved again, and all that's left are emails. Which is cool. Again, with FT work and a young child, there's hardly time or energy for anything more involved. I move it's the story for majority of people. What's different seems rather anomalous to me.[/quote]

I think its not the having a lifelong friend that is important so much as having friends. Particularly a woman being able to be friends with other women. And not because of being a loner. There is a clear difference between an introvert and someone who just cannot be friendly with other women. The latter is bad news bears.

I would also say that if she can't get along with anyone in your life (like ok your mom might be crazy but if your mom and you siblings and your friends all don't like her, that means something). And if she doesn't make an effort to rectify that. If my DH's fam disliked me I would be trying to improve the situation because that makes for a pretty difficult life. If someone wallows in hating people, its bad.

Being extremely passive aggressive I would also look out for, it means they can't talk through problems and bodes poorly for future conflict resolution.[/quote]

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