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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I get this.  I had a college bf who I still care for, in the sense that I want him to be happy in life, but who I am not interested in being romantically linked to EVER again.  We were not a good fit long term.  The last time I reached out to him (when he got engaged, to say congrats, I'd just gotten married) he didn't respond.  So even though he's had two kids since then, I haven't reached out again.  I wasn't sure my contact was welcome, or if his wife was ok with it, and didn't want to be making him uncomfortable.  I had broken up with him, and it was the right choice (I think he knew that too, but never would have ended it) and so I keep that in mind.  Would I want someone who dumped me reaching out asking about my life?  Errr, maybe not.

Do you have mutual friends?  Could you ask one of them if he's going to the reunion?  If not, I don't think I'd reach out.  I'd keep the fond memories, think well of him, and then get together with your other friends and have a blast.[/quote]

I wish there were more mature, empathetic people like you in the world. Everything now seems to be all about 'me'.[/quote]

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