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[quote=Anonymous]I'm with everyone who says - if he wanted to be more in touch with you, he would be. It isn't like he cannot reach you. The last time you suggested reconnecting more, he declined. OP, take a hint.

He may think well of you, your time in his life, and wish you well. It doesn't sound like you have him reason not to. That doesn't mean he wants you to be in his life now any more than you already are.

Don't be like my ex. The first time he contacted me, 3 years after our relationship, I was gracious, wished him well, and did not proceed further as I did not wish to have him in my life. He continued to email repeatedly, with more questions about my life at the time. I ignored all but the first - said what I wanted to in my reply to that, and wasn't interested in any further contact. After 4 or 5 emails, he stopped.

6 years later I get an alert that he's liked one of my tweets. He doesn't follow me on Twitter, and the tweet was from 4 months prior. This means he was scrolling through months of my tweets on a Saturday night. He then moved from someone I had no ill will towards to someone I spent the next morning trying to figure out how to block from all my social media accounts.

Don't be my ex. Take the hint the first time. [/quote]

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