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[quote=Anonymous]OP, the most important thing to do right now is document. If you know that you have to tell him bad news, then turn your phone on before you enter the room and start the conversation. Just make sure to keep it in front of you, because it will not pick up your voice if it's in your back pocket. If you hear your kids talking about how they are scared when daddy is angry, then record that too. Don't shove the phone in their faces, but have an honest conversation with them.
Also, I suggest finding the friend/acquaintance you trust most and start to open up. Don't spill everything at once, but start to let on that there's trouble in your home. That is a good way to test the waters to see if she will be receptive to helping you in any capacity.
I agree with the others--DO NOT remove your children from the US. This will get very messy in a legal way.
A good way to make extra money is by selling old things you don't need. It won't bring in the big bucks, but it will be good if you want to start socking away cash and opening a secret bank account. There are lots of Facebook and email groups out there that you can join. If you are friends with your husband and his friends/family on Facebook, then I suggest you make a new Facebook page with a fake name so they won't see that you're selling anything. I am going to guess that if he found out, then he would make you give him the cash.

OP, you are a smart woman! The fact that you have reached out and been able to even consciously verbalize what is going on is a very big first step in this process of breaking free. You are strong and intelligent. You can do this![/quote]

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