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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP. I'll also chime in that you're mostly crying about yourself, OP. Yes, you feel for them, but your intense emotional reaction is a fresh burst of grief over something that happened in the past to you.

His wife clearly does not want you around. This is a tough time for them, and you must stay away. You will only make things harder for them. [/quote]

Actually the fact that his wife explicitly cut you out of his life tells me you probably acted a little crazy after you broke up. I can assure you she doesn't want your crazy anywhere near her child.[/quote]

OP here. This was not the case at all, but thanks for guessing!  We were broken up for many years before they even met. There was no crazy from either side, as it was really the only sane option and we both had other stuff (the things that pulled us apart) to focus on. It was a very amiable breakup and there are no hard feelings or wishes it ended differently. I have no feelings of ill will towards him or his wife and while I don't know why she doesn't want him ever talking to exes (it's not just me) I recognize that my opinion on the matter is completely irrelevant to how they life their lives. [/quote]

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