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[quote=Anonymous]OP, we just went through this. It is awful, I know first hand. The people I knew were friends were there by my side, brought dinners, attended the funeral, checked in on me several times while I was saying goodbye during their deaths. You remember those people fondly forever, really. The people who are judgy and want you to suffer more, seemingly ("...but did you pay your father's taxes and make sure the state got what it was due?" Effing really?); and didn't so much as make a phone call or bring a dinner - when it's their time, I guess they are on their own, right? These are the same "friends" who have their own paid help for folding laundry, but judge you on how they think you spend time or money. Don't let anyone judge you. You did what was right, given limited resources, limited time and limited help. Until other people go through it themselves, they have no idea. They are just interested in who got what, and how nosy they can be. No thanks. [/quote]
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