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[quote=Anonymous]My DD is ten - I don't think I'd want her to go anyplace I hadn't been first, or at least met the parents. But since you did, at this point I'd ask DD how it went and see how much info I could get. Then yes, I'd have Susan over. After that? I don't know. It would depend on a lot of things - i might ask around (especially if you're in a rural area) and see what the vernal feeling is. What's the reputation of the older brother, for example? I grew up in a rural area and had friends who lived in trailers and friends who lived in houses with their own pools - basically a wide variety. I think it's a good grounding that people are people and you should treat everyone equally. But gut feelings are important, so look beyond a superficial classism and dig into your feelings - what's really the basis of your unease? Will meeting the other family members help? Etc. [/quote]
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