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Reply to "I am so angry at my husband-- how do you handle silent withdrawal?"
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[quote=Anonymous]So let's break down the dynamic you are describing here: 1) Any time you do anything that displeases him, including things that, as described are utterly innocuous to an objective observer, he punishes you 2) Sometimes that punishment is a screaming rage that sounds frightening to be around 3) other times that punishment is a refusal to acknowledge your existance, which goes on for days 4) After an episode, he apologizes but claims that it's just how he is (aka refuses to take responsibility for his actions) 5) he has actively avoided changing anything about this pattern You are married to an abuser. This is manipulative behavior at its worst and the obvious goal is for you to be afraid at all times of displeasing him, so that your own needs and emotions are no longer even part of the equation. DTMFA[/quote]
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