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[quote=Anonymous]Op you asked how do you stop this?  You just STOP! You face the fact that both your mother and your sister seem to care very little that they hurt you and your child. You are taking from your child to support a selfish adult. Both your mother and your sister have no problem taking from your child.

Never give either of them money ever again. Ever. 
This is your first step to having a backbone. You fail not just to yourself but as a parent when you give them resources (money and time).

Give very little of your time to them. You need to see and hear from them a lot less. You need to find friends away from these two.

" I love her and want her in my life but I can't take this anymore."  "I don't understand why I can't have an adult relationship with my adult sister."   "This is just like her, by the way...she does this withholding silent treatment thing when people call her out or ask her to account for her behavior. "

You are chasing your mother and your sister for love that it sounds like they never gave you. You don't matter as much to them. Your child certainly doesn't matter very much to them if they treat you this way.  If they cared about you and your child they wouldn't take money and resources away from you. You are robbing from the child you are responsible for to support this selfish adult

Isn't it telling that your mother isn't supporting this woman-baby?

I don't believe that your sister has  a place to move to. You will probably need to evict her. Your comment about not wanting a scene sounds good superficially but I'm thinking it may be your way of avoiding the confrontation that is necessary. It is telling that you are anxious and sad more than angry at your mother and sister. 
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