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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This morning was my divorce day in court, 24-year marriage separated a year, 2 kids. Even though he was verbally abusive and a narcissist, others saw only his charming side. Its been a gut-wrenching year watching him move on effortlessly while I haven't been able to, still waiting for the great feelings of freedom and sweetness that others talk about. Maybe today things will change. [/quote] Hmmm nobody calls you charming because you're not a "narcissist". [/quote] He can move on effortlessly because he didn't care and he still doesn't. You on the other hand did and do care about other people and about the marriage you invested in. It isn't fair but all you can do is patiently move forward, take care of yourself and your kids. The less contact you have with him the better ... only what is necessary for the kids. Otherwise, no contact. It will get better, I promise.[/quote]
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