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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Watching RHOBH and Yolanda Foster would absolutely worship David Foster. Granted, he does have a huge ego and God like complex. But I commented on that to my boyfriend and he joked "as she should." [b]Well, I feel like I "worship" my boyfriend. I put his needs before anyones, including mine a lot of the time. I want to pamper/treat/spoil him.[/b] I'm ready to completely devote my life to him. If he wanted to move, I'd move with him. I'd make any life choices based on what he wants. Is this what a man wants? Do you think he appreciates it or is scared of it?[/quote]
You are doing this wrong, and are setting a very unhealthy relationship dynamics.

If anyone needs to worship anyone in the relationship, it's the other way 'round.  It's a man's job to want to pamper/spoil/treat you.  When the roles reserve, this is what's going to happen: your boyfriend is going to accept this because it's convenient at the time.  But when time comes to get serious, he will choose a woman who HE wants to worship, treat and spoil.  It doesn't work the other way around, and if it does, you honestly wouldn't want to be in that type of relationship - because it's fucking exhausting.

Men aren't made to accept pampering or appreciate it.  Perhaps occasionally, when you've been married for twenty years and you want to show your appreciation for what he's done.  But certainly not in the boyfriend stage!!!!!  They need to be the active party in the relationship for it to go anywhere.  Don't do this.

Don't make life choices based on what he wants! You will regret it. [/quote]

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