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[quote=Anonymous]Getting divorce on grounds of adultery is $$$. But it can save $$$ down the road (in VA at least, as a spouse divorced for grounds of adultery doesn't get alimony) and possibly time (divorce can be granted more quickly.) Not sure how you can get more information -- is it being used actively or was it created 3 years ago and never used since (e.g. something like OKCupid's quizzes wanting your DH to register)? But get that first. You may need a PI to gather information and that will be $$$. Once you have ascertained he is cheating or looking actively to cheat then it is decision time. First Q: decide if you want to divorce. If YES, then meet with an attorney. Do not confront as this will make your spouse hide, go deeper, lie more, or even take $$$ out (the $200k stolen from joint accounts and put in gold, wow!) Only when you have evidence, a little (or a lot) of $$$ to live on, and a solid escape plan do you confront. If NO, then just get screenshots. React according to their reaction. [/quote]
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